Quote Originally Posted by joebloggs View Post
my wife was back at work just after 4wks of giving birth, mainly because she was not entitled to paid maternity leave

not wanting to leave our son with a baby minder or worse a nursery, my wife got her 17yr old son to come from the phils to look after him for 18months , now he's cared for by a baby minder for 5hrs a day, and he's doing great, he likes it so much with the baby minder, he doesn't want to come back home .......

don't worry, it just gives you a reason to get home ASAP every day only to find he's ripped off more wallpaper, damaged everything, put the car keys in the dustbin, etc...
Wow, you're wife was so brave I cannot do that We've been thinking about leaving our little boy in a nursery but not until he is 2 1/2 y.o. Lucky boy he's got his big brother.

Oh dear...he is so messy now. And i know more to come

Thanks joebloggs