My husband is divorced and has a 13 yr old son. When my husband returned to England after our wedding and went to see his son, his ex told him that he cannot enter the house and see his son anymore because he's already married. So my husband said oh okay, he didn't argue at all,then immediately went away but then his son called him to come back. His ex is still hurt and cannot accept that he's now married. The situation is better now though, my husband just picks his son up whenever he has the time. He's just being civil with his ex-wife. I don't really have anything against with my husbands ex.. I have never met her yet but I know someday in the future I will. I would like as much as possible that my husband spends time with his son while I am here in the Philippines bcoz his attention will surely be divided when I;m already there. I won't mind it either if he sees him evryday or spends time with him when I'm there as long as I am still my husbands first priority. The son deserves a quality time with his dad and I fully understand that.