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[cruisingkerry]

Hi Maria,

Sorry to hear about your health problems, that must have been really difficult for you and your husband. Do you feel like you had the right support following your surgery and cancer treatment? I mean, counselling and that kind of support. Sometimes when you go through a rough time like that it has bearings on your future life even if you don't feel like it does. Do you feel guilty that you can't give your gusband a child? even if its not your fault? just something to think about.

I think that even just starting this thread is a step in the right direction to working out a little bit more about you.

Love
K xx

[maria_and_matt]

Hi Maria,

Sorry to hear about your health problems, that must have been really difficult for you and your husband. Do you feel like you had the right support following your surgery and cancer treatment? I mean, counselling and that kind of support. Sometimes when you go through a rough time like that it has bearings on your future life even if you don't feel like it does. Do you feel guilty that you can't give your gusband a child? even if its not your fault? just something to think about.

I think that even just starting this thread is a step in the right direction to working out a little bit more about you.

Love
K xx

i had no support when i was undergoing cancer treatment and after my surgery. my husband didnt even go with me when i was having my radiation sessions. he missed all of it, i remember sitting in hospital crying coz i was so lonely, that is when i felt like i was so alone. that feeling never left me.
when i had my hysterectomy i was in hospital for 3 days my husband never made it on time on visiting hours, he would turn up halfway through it. enough said i feel like crying already.
i dont feel guilty about not having a child with my husband. i made a choice to have the op so i live longer for my son. he means the world to me. i think that without my matthew i would died ages ago. i cannot take the things that happened to me here.
my filipino friends all tell me ' oh well at least you have money', they just dont know i'd rather be without money but have a better relationship with my husband.
thank you so much for asking me these questions it made me think a lot.