Quote Originally Posted by maria_and_matt View Post
i can honestly say that material things don't matter match, i just want our relationship to get back on track. i can live without holidays, money or cars. i just want my husband to be more involved in our relationship not just be a provider. and i do know i am lucky to have him, but as i said before life is not all about money.

I met a lot of filipinas with much boring life than yours! I also met a young chinese girl who is married to Brit. I asked her if she was ready when she gave birth for her 4 month old son. She said NO, I was not ready and feel boring now she said. So please be thankful for that. Try some reverse psychology too. I feel boring if my hubby plays his PS3. Then I'll take a shower and later tell him I'll go to my friend house. He will say OK but in few minutes he will pick me up and ask me where I want to go. If I feel unwanted, I trully tell him I NEED A HUG, I WANT SWEET NOTHINGS! I'LL START telling funny stories, scracth/ massage his back, and he will turn his attention to me

Try making friends too. But choose the genuine one. I had 2 in our place and if she feels boring I'm always there if I have really time. Real friends will always make you feel happy