Well marylen, i think theres no such thing as perfect just what pennybarry said there's no such perfect in this world except the word Perfect..

But as you get to know more your husband everyday the more you will fully understand why he was meant for you and why you accept him aside from the negative traits or the way he acts towards you, your differences which i know you learned how to deal with it..

Well me and my husband have differences but if we think theres a problem thats goin on, we just talked about it and we wont let the day passed to patch up things..

Actually he doesnt like me eating balot and toyo but then i make him understand that sometimes im craving for it so i have to cook and prepare the food while his asleep when his here so he cant complain coz its already cooked..

Unlike you your husband likes you gaining weight were opposite i like my husband gaining weight and he knows that and he doesnt care thats why when his here he eat a lot just like me..hahah!