i need help pls :(

[philphil61]

Hi

I feel for you girl that this Englishman like so many men do not take responsible attitudes towards relationships and children - I hate this even though I am a man because he and many others make my life harder because women becoming untrusting towards men from the many bad experiences they have

BUT

I also do not understand why you felt the need to get pregnant before you was married or before you knew him truly. Knowing him online for 1 year is not enough in my eyes. You need to accept some responsibility for the situation you are in.

With respect to your wanting to return home - I cannot give advice as I dont know the true answer although my heart is with you and your child for your current circumstances.

I hope you find peace and happiness whatever the outcome may be.

My apologises to anyone who is offended by my comments here - I speak from the heart and honestly!

Phil

[aromulus]

Hi
I also do not understand why you felt the need to get pregnant before you was married or before you knew him truly. Knowing him online for 1 year is not enough in my eyes. You need to accept some responsibility for the situation you are in.
Phil

No need to chastize I think......

Mistakes do happen and I am sure that she didn't get pregnant on purpose.

The onus really is on the "shower" that didn't take precautions.

Yes you will be able to take your baby with you, if you return home.
As no doubt you would be granted sole custody.

Good luck.

[PAT]

No need to chastize I think......

Mistakes do happen and I am sure that she didn't get pregnant on purpose.

The onus really is on the "shower" that didn't take precautions.


This is a good news for you miserable!...you are blessed enough having a baby.

Yes you will be able to take your baby with you, if you return home.
As no doubt you would be granted sole custody.

Good luck.

Hello sir, i am trying to quote.I am not sure if i done it correctly.

[maria_and_matt]

i am so sorry to hear about whats going on with you here. you can take the child back to the philippines if you want to especially if you are not married to this guy. and once you are back home seek help from a lawyer about full custody which i think you won't have any problems getting, it is just as a precaution in case the father of your baby turns up there.
if you need to talk we are always around to listen. goodluck sis, and godbless you and your baby.

[miserable]

Hi

I feel for you girl that this Englishman like so many men do not take responsible attitudes towards relationships and children - I hate this even though I am a man because he and many others make my life harder because women becoming untrusting towards men from the many bad experiences they have

BUT

I also do not understand why you felt the need to get pregnant before you was married or before you knew him truly. Knowing him online for 1 year is not enough in my eyes. You need to accept some responsibility for the situation you are in.

With respect to your wanting to return home - I cannot give advice as I dont know the true answer although my heart is with you and your child for your current circumstances.

I hope you find peace and happiness whatever the outcome may be.

My apologises to anyone who is offended by my comments here - I speak from the heart and honestly!

Phil

hi!well yeah pat is right it wasnt really a plan when got pregnant but no regret at all coz its my daughter who makes me feel courage to have and makes me happy for now.

was bit confused last night so had typo...coz we met online 2005 and in person last year..so its 2 years we've known 'til we met....he so very nice when talked online,i feel so much love and care but all gone when i know the real him.

and some more.....

i just asked my grandma and mom for a money to send me least can help a bit for our expenses here..they understand and both generous so they gave me what i asked.and also i saved some from my wages in my work before,it helps really a bit as well