Don't marry him if you think he's really a bully type. Did you try to shout louder and better than he does? Your suffering is enough. Go to CAB and they will help you. Fight for your baby!!! You can do it!
CHEER UP!
Don't marry him if you think he's really a bully type. Did you try to shout louder and better than he does? Your suffering is enough. Go to CAB and they will help you. Fight for your baby!!! You can do it!
CHEER UP!
hi penny!!
ur right,he is bit bully..thats what his mother said to him as well.he hit me twice already..the first one when was pregnant,coz of my jealousy of that girl..he hit me coz was just quiet when he talked a loat but the second time i stand for myself already so i shouted him back and saying names too and that made him pissed of...was about to call a cop that time but he begged me and kneel infront of me not to and just went to his mum's house to sort it out.
i was staying that night to his mum's and i can feel and see that his mum want me stay cos she dont want to be far to her grandchild :(
Warning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now that I have read these words, I am afraid I have only one thing to say.
LEAVE HIM!!!!
No decent man hits a woman - in fact - and I'm sorry if this hurts - if he has hit you already, the chances are that he will do it again.
I feel sure that my colleagues will back me up on this sentiment.
God bless you.
Al.![]()
I agree but would change it to no person should need to hit another person.
He seems to have a temper and be a bully which even his mother sees.
I would suggest in this situation particulalry with a young Baby you should walk away.
No man with a Wife to be and baby should be chating to girls in person or online. Apart form everyday work reasons and social.
To many warning signs if he cant make the effort now things are likely to get better imo.
Remember if the person is already an adult it would take a lifetime for that person to change. Don't waste your time to a worthless person. Value and love yourself. Tough but you made a mistake and just have to stand up for it. Your child will be very proud of you after you overcome this. Also would you want to bring the child up in that kind of environment? remember domestic violence accelerates so the earlier the better. Nothing to be ashamed when you want to go back. Good and bad things happens. Where are you in England as my gF would be willing to help you. She knows a lot of things. She has been through a lot also. She was reading this and was really upset why some man takes you out of PI then just wreck your life here, not fair as there are a lot of laws that you are not familiar with.
Best way forward is to go to CAB and seek rigths for your child as you are not married to him. Do it quickly as your visa is expiring.
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