so you mean PAT you haven't met your bf yet even once? how long have you been into relationship with him? yeah i guess much better if you apply on fiancee/spouse visa and build up more evidence as many as you can.......not long you can have the visa am sure , its just maybe you took the wrong moves in applying vv instead of go on with your plan B, but nxt time am sure you can have it as refusal is not count against you...............