I am just a bit down at the moment knowing my younger sister is having a hard time at the moment or more often (no job, got a 2 year old son and just give birth last month) well, of course, I shoulder her hospital bill (thankfully £150) less health insurance. She moved to her husband family and gave them small space where they can build small house. Of course I shoulder that as well and it cost me £600 (they've got one room and small lounge) atleast they can start their life and live on their own atleast. Her husband is working temporarily and don't earn much and they have 2 kids to get feed (milk and diapers is very expensive) My other sister is trying her best to help her as well but the thing is she got 3 children on her own too.
My sister send me me message today to tell me that my sister is not well. She feel a chest pain (according to her she felt that since she gave birth to her first son but she ignore it) then when she got pregnant again she started to feel it again. My sister is so worried she told her to go to the doctor ASAP but she said she has no money, my sister said just ask her husband to borrow money to his relatives but unsuccesful so instead she went to public clinic for check up but instead they refer her to hospital for further check up.
I feel annoyed with her husband that he can't do something to help my sister even the very start their first baby born that almost died bec of complication. I told her before that one child is enough since she's jobless and her husband don't have permanent job too but since her new baby arrive we can't do anything about it. I help them too much I even send my sis to a caregiver course just incase she might get a job abroad, who knows. I am going to send her money for her check up and hopefully everything's okay, of course I am worried but at the same time feel a bit angry with the husband that he can't even ask his family to help them.
My family specially my siblings don't know how I work hard to send them money and give them a reasonable life. I got a £7000 loan here (5 years to pay) to pay for the house in the Phils, right now, I am paying my loan here and my mortgage back home and of course my monthly handouts to my parents so I work as much as I can like 12hrs/day or sometimes 72 hrs/week and contented having a one day off in a week or not at all sometimes and I don't spend much for my self just to save every penny as much as I can.
I love helping them but sometimes I feel that some of them are already parasite.
tiger 
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Goodness me Cheesewiz!! Have you forgotten that you own life matters aswell? This must be putting a huge strain on you! The worlds burdens are not yours! The worlds joys riches and pleasures are! It's imperative that you take care of your own wellbeing first! I don't like the sound of you working 72 hours a week like that! I work around 50 hours a week, sometimes 60, but 72??
Originally Posted by nigel
i don't buy lotto that's the problem i think should start buying now
