Quote Originally Posted by nigel View Post
Goodness me Cheesewiz!! Have you forgotten that you own life matters aswell? This must be putting a huge strain on you! The worlds burdens are not yours! The worlds joys riches and pleasures are! It's imperative that you take care of your own wellbeing first! I don't like the sound of you working 72 hours a week like that! I work around 50 hours a week, sometimes 60, but 72?? That's really quite outrageous! I think maybe you would benefit from hypnotherapy? Any kind of self development?

I've helped my Vimvie's family financially and it has put a strain on me, but it sounds like what is happening to you is crippling! Your a very special person, an important person, you deserve to be happy and healthy yourself, of course you do! Don't ignore your own wellbeing you silly!

thanks for the concern. I am still single and just my self to worry right now what I am keep on telling them if I get married one day I can't help them anymore as I have my own family to prioritize. I know its not good working that much but i'd rather working than staying at home bec I feel more stress and depress..atleast I have this forum to keep me busy reading what's going on here.