What's "wrong" with UK women?

[srvfan]

May I ask the kind gentlemen here what they see in Filipinas that are lacking in British/Scottish/Welsh women?

I have an English girl for a close friend and she's very nice to me. She has a good temperament, dresses modestly, and delivers a clever banter from time to time. A childhood friend of hers works as a part-time missionary here in the PI and both of them are more or less split peas in attitude and demeanor. Do they display typical behaviors seen in today's UK women or are they as rare as pearls in the sand?

I can't say outright that they're better than Filipinas or the other way around. In my personal preference, I just find white women more attractive than Filipinas.

Discuss.

[Toyang]

Most Filipina wives are submissive, hard working, good housekeeper, family oriented, caring, hospitable, and faithful.
Yes western women are more attractive but Filipina having a small built body, their figure are far more attractive as most westerners have big body built that looks masculine and looks older than their actual age.
Filipinas,having a not too white or pale skintone, but not too dark, just a perfect tone that looks more attractive than most westerners who looks so pale in the winter and in summer most of them their skin have loads of freckles/ blemishes because of too much sunshine.

[aposhark]

Toyang, I don't really agree with your generalisations
Your post was frankly off the mark, incorrect and unobservant.

Most Filipina wives are submissive, hard working, good housekeeper, family oriented, caring, hospitable, and faithful.

Nope, my wife is not submissive.
Yes, she speaks quietly but tells me when I am wrong. I listen

Yes western women are more attractive but

What?

as most westerners have big body built that looks masculine and looks older than their actual age.

Ludicrous

Filipinas,having a not too white or pale skintone, but not too dark, just a perfect tone

My wife has nice coloured skin but I see so many different shades of skin in the Phils.

most of them their skin have loads of freckles/ blemishes because of too much sunshine.

Totally incorrect IMO

[Piamed]

Toyang, I don't really agree with your generalisations
Your post was frankly off the mark, incorrect and unobservant.


Nope, my wife is not submissive.
Yes, she speaks quietly but tells me when I am wrong. I listen


What?


Ludicrous


My wife has nice coloured skin but I see so many different shades of skin in the Phils.


Totally incorrect IMO

I agree with Aposhark responses and would further expound that to those with more than a superficial perspective all shades are beautiful!!!!!!!!

[andypaul]

Most Filipina wives are submissive, hard working, good housekeeper, family oriented, caring, hospitable, and faithful.
Yes western women are more attractive but Filipina having a small built body, their figure are far more attractive as most westerners have big body built that looks masculine and looks older than their actual age.
Filipinas,having a not too white or pale skintone, but not too dark, just a perfect tone that looks more attractive than most westerners who looks so pale in the winter and in summer most of them their skin have loads of freckles/ blemishes because of too much sunshine.

Umm not in my view

[keithAngel]

May I ask the kind gentlemen here what they see in Filipinas that are lacking in British/Scottish/Welsh women?

I have an English girl for a close friend and she's very nice to me. She has a good temperament, dresses modestly, and delivers a clever banter from time to time. A childhood friend of hers works as a part-time missionary here in the PI and both of them are more or less split peas in attitude and demeanor. Do they display typical behaviors seen in today's UK women or are they as rare as pearls in the sand?

I can't say outright that they're better than Filipinas or the other way around. In my personal preference, I just find white women more attractive than Filipinas.

Discuss.

No British/Scottish/Welsh women woman has every fed me a morsel of fish liver whilst suggesting with her eyebrows she cant wait to wash up speedily and then make inventive demands on my libido ....and thats just the maid the the G/F is Divine

[aposhark]

whilst suggesting with her eyebrows

We could all write a book about that Keith, but if we did, we'd miss those eyebrows suggesting even more things. That would be such a waste

[aposhark]

May I ask the kind gentlemen here what they see in Filipinas that are lacking in British/Scottish/Welsh women?

I have an English girl for a close friend and she's very nice to me. She has a good temperament, dresses modestly, and delivers a clever banter from time to time. A childhood friend of hers works as a part-time missionary here in the PI and both of them are more or less split peas in attitude and demeanor. Do they display typical behaviors seen in today's UK women or are they as rare as pearls in the sand?

I can't say outright that they're better than Filipinas or the other way around. In my personal preference, I just find white women more attractive than Filipinas.

Discuss.

Good question srvfan.
From my own perspective, and if we assume that love is the reason that we want to spend the rest of our lives with our Mahal, I was very impressed with my girlfriend (who became my wife ) when she said "'Till death us do part" much earlier than the wedding . It was the sheer totality and depth of feelings that overwhelmed me.

I had never felt such a constant force as a Filipina's love.
It was awe-inspiring and so easy to reciprocate.
I felt spiritually awakened, and I am an atheist . It wasn't anything to do with earthly passing phases such as religions, it was feelings of destiny and being one with the cosmos, she made me feel like we were always destined to be together.

Apart from anything else, I had never felt love the way it constantly washed over me from every sense. It wasn't momentary delight but put me in a place where I had never been so happy, and still feel the same, even though the months are rolling on without her in this seemingly endless BIG wait.

To cap it all off, the love of a good woman is like a "Texas Flood", which I know you will understand srv fan

[nomorericepleas]

i'd tend to agree with aposhark on most points raised, but i understand what the toyang is getting at. My fiancee is really quite ballsy and not what i expected to find in the philippines. However, when i manage to get her into a good mood she is as described, hard-working, loyal, loving and very devoted.

I did make an attempt to meet Uk women before i looked abroad, but i found them really quite spoiled and ofcourse wanting to be a mans equal, which of course they can never be I found them stroppy and difficult to talk to, and they made it feel like a job interview trying to get to know them. Maybe i was just unlucky with the ones i met, but i tend to think it was fate dealing me a better hand elsewhere.

Obviously plenty of guys meet and get on very well with british women. Somehow i couldnt.I think also they looked down on me as i am only a humble gardener, whereas a filipina doesnt seem to care what you do or how old you are as long as you care for them. No stereotypes to stick to over there.

[aposhark]

i'd tend to agree with aposhark on most points raised, but i understand what the toyang is getting at. My fiancee is really quite ballsy and not what i expected to find in the philippines. However, when i manage to get her into a good mood she is as described, hard-working, loyal, loving and very devoted.

I did make an attempt to meet Uk women before i looked abroad, but i found them really quite spoiled and ofcourse wanting to be a mans equal, which of course they can never be I found them stroppy and difficult to talk to, and they made it feel like a job interview trying to get to know them. Maybe i was just unlucky with the ones i met, but i tend to think it was fate dealing me a better hand elsewhere.

Obviously plenty of guys meet and get on very well with british women. Somehow i couldnt.I think also they looked down on me as i am only a humble gardener, whereas a filipina doesnt seem to care what you do or how old you are as long as you care for them. No stereotypes to stick to over there.

I travelled overseas for many years and what struck me was the amount of men I met who said that marrying their Filipinas was the best thing they had ever done.
These comments rested in my mind but I never really believed them as life couldn't be that good Still, these sentiments kept coming but I only really understood after spending many hours in the company of my shy girlfriend who became my less shy wife

[Mrs Daddy]

May I ask the kind gentlemen here what they see in Filipinas that are lacking in British/Scottish/Welsh women?

I have an English girl for a close friend and she's very nice to me. She has a good temperament, dresses modestly, and delivers a clever banter from time to time. A childhood friend of hers works as a part-time missionary here in the PI and both of them are more or less split peas in attitude and demeanor. Do they display typical behaviors seen in today's UK women or are they as rare as pearls in the sand?

I can't say outright that they're better than Filipinas or the other way around. In my personal preference, I just find white women more attractive than Filipinas.

Discuss.

Hi srvfan,Are you a filipino? coz if you are no doubt why you find english girl attractive which is fair they are but you know what I cant blame you saying that and to tell you what, filipinas whos married to english men have the right reason on why they choose british men coz there much better than pinoyssowi no hurt feelings

[srvfan]

Hi srvfan,Are you a filipino? coz if you are no doubt why you find english girl attractive which is fair they are but you know what I cant blame you saying that and to tell you what, filipinas whos married to english men have the right reason on why they choose british men coz there much better than pinoyssowi no hurt feelings

"Better" is on the eye of the beholder. To be precise, I'm Filipino-Chinese.

I just love Asian girls generally, they have an inner beauty that British girls don't have, Asian girls are delectable both in character and looks. Talking a British girl is like talking to Vikki Pollard! And looking at a British girl is like looking at potato with a pair of knickers on! .............. They're aren't any British girls on this forum are they're?

Not my close friends.

[paulgee]

I find it interesting that such a large proportion of long distance relationships between us Brit men and their filipina gf's end up 'happy ever after'. I am sure it is not the same for British men and women who meet on the internet.

I would not put down British women, merely echo what others have said; ie the attributes of filipina women and the love and loyalty they show their man can be a telling factor in the success of our long distance relationships.

[nigel]

I do think there's some nice British girls, but they are few and far between, and when a man is in his thirties, well all the nice Brit girls will be snapped up, married off. No guy wants to get stuck with some Vicky Pollard type that don't give a damn about him! And if you are, dump her immediatly and find yourself a nice Asian girl!

[Mrs Daddy]

"Better" is on the eye of the beholder. To be precise, I'm Filipino-Chinese.



Not my close friends.

you are in the minority

[andypaul]

Nothing what so ever wrong with British women. I just happened to meet my Missus who was born in laguna not London.

[joebloggs]

Nothing what so ever wrong with British women. I just happened to meet my Missus who was born in laguna not London.

something else we agree on Andy, my misses could have been british, european or from Timbuktu, but she's from Laguna to

[flomike]

Nothing what so ever wrong with British women. I just happened to meet my Missus who was born in laguna not London.

my husband is not part of this forum so he can't share his views but for sure he is a very lucky man married to a woman from Laguna go go laguna girls!!! and i am very lucky woman married to a Yorkshire man:cwm12

[Sconnie]

The question could be asked why do Pinay go for western men or avoid Pinoy

[andypaul]

The question could be asked why do Pinay go for western men or avoid Pinoy

Or why do some guys like blondes and others brunettes

[nigel]

I just love Asian girls generally, they have an inner beauty that British girls don't have, Asian girls are delectable both in character and looks. Talking a British girl is like talking to Vikki Pollard! And looking at a British girl is like looking at potato with a pair of knickers on! .............. They're aren't any British girls on this forum are they're?

[joebloggs]

Talking a British girl is like talking to Vikki Pollard! And looking at a British girl is like looking at potato with a pair of knickers on! ..............

well you should try other places than your local pub

[aromulus]

I just love Asian girls generally, they have an inner beauty that British girls don't have, Asian girls are delectable both in character and looks. Talking a British girl is like talking to Vikki Pollard! And looking at a British girl is like looking at potato with a pair of knickers on! .............. They're aren't any British girls on this forum are they're?

Wait till cruisingkerry come back on.......

You just signed your death warrant....

Now..... If you were to paypal me a few quid, I would kinda of lose and delete your posts....

[nigel]

Wait till cruisingkerry come back on.......

You just signed your death warrant....

Now..... If you were to paypal me a few quid, I would kinda of lose and delete your posts....

Daaaa I'm not bothered! British women are all like this..little-britain-vicki-pollard.jpg

[andypaul]

I just love Asian girls generally, they have an inner beauty that British girls don't have, Asian girls are delectable both in character and looks. Talking a British girl is like talking to Vikki Pollard! And looking at a British girl is like looking at potato with a pair of knickers on! .............. They're aren't any British girls on this forum are they're?

Im telling your Mum

[anview]

I just love Asian girls generally, they have an inner beauty that British girls don't have, Asian girls are delectable both in character and looks. Talking a British girl is like talking to Vikki Pollard! And looking at a British girl is like looking at potato with a pair of knickers on! .............. They're aren't any British girls on this forum are they're?

yeah but...no but... yeah but...no but...yeah but?!?

[Sconnie]

Or why do some guys like blondes and others brunettes

Exactly we just fall in love with the person we fall in love with....

[Mrs Daddy]

The question could be asked why do Pinay go for western men or avoid Pinoy

or vice versa

[Scouse]

Some Filipina's are better than some UK women, some UK women are better than some Filipinas.

It depends on a lot more than how they look. It;s about personality, demeanour etc. It doesn't matter were my wife is from, she just happened to be born on the Philippines and moved to the UK with a job. We met in my local pub and haven't looked back since.

She could have been from anywhere, next door, Australia, Ghana, South America. Her nationality was not and is not part of the equation. It is who she is that makes me love her.

[Arthur Little]

I was fortunate in being married to a really good Scottish lady for 24 years before being widowed in 1991 at the age of 47. In the intervening period, I'd dated literally scores of British women (no, honestly I'm not bragging!) and had never found anyone to quite match up to her standards ... until September 2007, when I started corresponding with a similarly bereaved Filipina from Mindanao. We've continued to communicate by email on a regular daily basis ever since and always find plenty to say to one another. Indeed, the "conversation" just seems to flow naturally on almost every topic imaginable.

In September of this year, I travelled out to the Phils to meet the lady, and it was as if I'd been lucky enough to have known her all my life! There was absolutely no strangeness between us whatsoever, and we spent the most wonderful three weeks together. In fact, I'm returning to Tagum in a few weeks' time, equipped with my CNI in order that we can, at least partially, fulfil our plans to marry and bring her back to the UK subject to her being granted a spousal visa. She is extremely well-educated, having taught for more than 22 years in a Government High School and, hopefully, she will be able to resume her teaching career across here.

So yes, based on MY own experience, there's most definitely a great deal of truth in what has been said in favour of Asian women - particularly Filipinas - because my lady has demonstrated her unquestionable loyalty and affection for me in many, many ways that British women (again, in my experience) seem incapable of showing.