Bar girls & STI/STD/HIV/AIDS

[joebloggs]

having watched 'selling sex in heaven' about the Philippine sex trade on the cbc channel.

some places check bar girls regularly, using smear tests but are rarely tested for HIV.

most shocking is the final option for some girls are the 'casas' used by the local Filipino men, where the girls are locked in a small room, a guard stands outside and lets in customers every 15 mins.

i think the girl will not like being asked to go to a clinic to test her, so maybe your friend can buy HIV and other testing kits online, and take them to the phils where both of them can be tested if you don't want to go to a clinic...

[Hammer]

It's difficult for my friend because he's really worried, but he's only in the position because he found out that the girl's ex cheated on her with bar girls.

[johncar54]

It's difficult for my friend because he's really worried, but he's only in the position because he found out that the girl's ex cheated on her with bar girls.

Sorry if I sound cynical but how the gf might have become infected is really irrelevant: it might be true about a former boy friend or she may have been sleeping around or even may have been a bar girl.

The situation now is that both parties need to be tested. That is the only way to know if they have a problem or not. I really don’t see what the dilemma is.

[joebloggs]

Sorry if I sound cynical but how the gf might have become infected is really irrelevant: it might be true about a former boy friend or she may have been sleeping around or even may have been a bar girl.

The situation now is that both parties need to be tested. That is the only way to know if they have a problem or not. I really don’t see what the dilemma is.

I'm sure she would want to know if she has caught anything from her ex, as much as your friend wants to know if this girl has caught anything

get the test done, better be safe than sorry latter

[Hammer]

Sorry if I sound cynical but how the gf might have become infected is really irrelevant: it might be true about a former boy friend or she may have been sleeping around or even may have been a bar girl.

The situation now is that both parties need to be tested. That is the only way to know if they have a problem or not. I really don’t see what the dilemma is.

I think the only dilemma is how the gf will take it. He would not ask her to take the test on his own he would also be tested.

But how would you ask gf about such a thing?

[Hammer]

Thank you for all the replies.

I think he will want to test both himself and the gf.

But how does he go about asking the gf on this?

[PeterB]

having watched 'selling sex in heaven' about the Philippine sex trade on the cbbc channel.

It's amazing what they put on kids' TV these days!

the girls are locked in a small room, a guard stands outside and lets in customers every 15 mins.

It must get quite crowded in there after a while!

[joebloggs]

It's amazing what they put on kids' TV these days!



It must get quite crowded in there after a while!

you naughty boy peter
but never the less it showed you the world of the bar girls, and its not a nice place to be in

the rooms are not much bigger than a shoe box , not really something to joke about.

your right benb, it can take btw 3 to 6 months to detect HIV, but then how long ago was she last with her ex ??

[Hammer]

you naughty boy peter
but never the less it showed you the world of the bar girls, and its not a nice place to be in

the rooms are not much bigger than a shoe box , not really something to joke about.

your right benb, it can take btw 3 to 6 months to detect HIV, but then how long ago was she last with her ex ??

Last with ex almost as year ago.

[jimeve]

It's amazing what they put on kids' TV these days!



It must get quite crowded in there after a while!

It must be Dr Who's phone box.