Bar girls & STI/STD/HIV/AIDS

[Hammer]

It's difficult for my friend because he's really worried, but he's only in the position because he found out that the girl's ex cheated on her with bar girls.

[johncar54]

It's difficult for my friend because he's really worried, but he's only in the position because he found out that the girl's ex cheated on her with bar girls.

Sorry if I sound cynical but how the gf might have become infected is really irrelevant: it might be true about a former boy friend or she may have been sleeping around or even may have been a bar girl.

The situation now is that both parties need to be tested. That is the only way to know if they have a problem or not. I really don’t see what the dilemma is.

[joebloggs]

Sorry if I sound cynical but how the gf might have become infected is really irrelevant: it might be true about a former boy friend or she may have been sleeping around or even may have been a bar girl.

The situation now is that both parties need to be tested. That is the only way to know if they have a problem or not. I really don’t see what the dilemma is.

I'm sure she would want to know if she has caught anything from her ex, as much as your friend wants to know if this girl has caught anything

get the test done, better be safe than sorry latter

[Hammer]

Sorry if I sound cynical but how the gf might have become infected is really irrelevant: it might be true about a former boy friend or she may have been sleeping around or even may have been a bar girl.

The situation now is that both parties need to be tested. That is the only way to know if they have a problem or not. I really don’t see what the dilemma is.

I think the only dilemma is how the gf will take it. He would not ask her to take the test on his own he would also be tested.

But how would you ask gf about such a thing?

[Hammer]

Thank you for all the replies.

I think he will want to test both himself and the gf.

But how does he go about asking the gf on this?