Bar girls & STI/STD/HIV/AIDS

[Sconnie]

How old is the girl ?

I assume she does not have a regular smear test, maybe she has never had a smear test.
She should have a regular smear test, he could put this to her. Its not only for sexually transmitted disease but also for her general well being, tell her that it is normal here for women to have these test for there health and to identify problems early, in order to treat them before they become life threatening, he does not even have to mention any concerns about diseases. Has he been tested and identified an infection ? He should go independently anyway.

[Hammer]

How old is the girl ?

I assume she does not have a regular smear test, maybe she has never had a smear test.
She should have a regular smear test, he could put this to her. Its not only for sexually transmitted disease but also for her general well being, tell her that it is normal here for women to have these test for there health and to identify problems early, in order to treat them before they become life threatening, he does not even have to mention any concerns about diseases. Has he been tested and identified an infection ? He should go independently anyway.

Don't know if the ex has been tested, don't care about him really the way he treated her.

Smear test will not pick up HIV / AIDS I believe which is the main concern.

[Sconnie]

Don't know if the ex has been tested, don't care about him really the way he treated her.

Smear test will not pick up HIV / AIDS I believe which is the main concern.

Did not mean the Ex I meant your friend.

[Hammer]

Did not mean the Ex I meant your friend.

OK, thank you. Smear test may be an option then, but it's the HIV saide that is really worrying him.

[joebloggs]

well your friend will have to come clean and tell his g/f of his worries and go to a clinic or like i said buy a kit, how accurate they are i don't know, i think it's illegal to advertise a HIV home testing kit in the uk, not sure about buying one thou. but i've seen them advertised on the net for £15 + del.

[jimeve]

Can't believe I'm hearing this. this aint an option both should go to the clinic
and get tested. simple blood test, that's it.

[johncar54]

Strange you are so worried about a 'friend' who can't ask Qs here for himself !!!!

[fred]

Can't believe I'm hearing this. this aint an option both should go to the clinic
and get tested. simple blood test, that's it.

Yeah..Its as simple as waiting for the judge to hand down a death sentence..
Piece of cake.

[Sconnie]

Don't know if the ex has been tested, don't care about him really the way he treated her.

Smear test will not pick up HIV / AIDS I believe which is the main concern.

A smear test could be a starting point, then your friend could put other testing forward for both of them.....