I'm sure that the 'right time' is different in every relationship.

You're lucky that your chatmate has a home and telephone line. Ruby was living in a boarding house and using the Internet cafes to chat. However, this didn't limit us ... we chatted for five hours on our very first day. We knew, very soon, that we had something worth pursuing, and within three weeks of our first chat I had booked my flights. In less than nine months I had sold up everything in the UK and moved to Philippines.