Welcome to Our Advice on Courting a Filipina ! remember one thing when you are courting a filipina. her name is not a filipina ? what do i mean by this ?
Whilst you might have entered into a courtship with a lady of the Philippines...her name certainly isnt filipina...she is actually Filipino by nationality, but the distinction stops there.
But she certainly is not called "Filipina" remember she is an individual lady with lovely qualities, can be very romantic and shy..gentle..so you are not courting, or engaged to a Filipina...you are engaged to..Mary Joy...or her christian name...whatever she is called..that is who you are talking about at home with your family, freinds, work colleagues, this is how to describe it..
"Actually I am engaged to Mary Joy...she comes from the Philippines"
At some stage you will need to take your relationship into the public domain, that is introducing your lady to freinds, family work colleagues, that is even if she is still in the Philippines, how does that work.
Are you really safe right now taking your relationship public with a Filipina....remembering what I said earlier ?
Have you told all your freinds...have you told your Mother you British Guys..what did she say ? hmmmm was it "Oh one of those foreign women" ??? I bet she did
Or have you kept that Filipina beauty you have been pursuing secret from your family...hmmm if you have watch out...you are in for some trouble.
The main reason Western Men keep their relationship secret is because the are in fear of the reaction of those closest to them in their everyday lives, this could be because of bigotry or zenophobia that exists everywhere in the United Kingdom Western Europe and the United States of America.
You tend to hear very often "Wh cant you get a woman of our own race" this is common and seeks to put forward the notion that all races attract each other.
This is simply an out dated principle, with ever increasing Globalization, trans migrational populations and the Power of modern communication, this principle has been shattered to its very core.
It is well known now that many Filipina's are attracted to Western Men and vice versa, Western Men are highly attracted to South East Asian women, not just Filipina's but women of the South Eeast Asian Region.
You may also be afraid of neighbours reactions "Oh its one of those filipino women!" this is common as most of them have seen some daytime talk show that shows Western men turning up in town with a strange looking girl on his arm that has jet black hair and doesnt quite look like that girl next door you used to know"
You might have convinced yourself that it would be better to keep your relationship secret until xxxx arrives in the UK and is living in your house....trust me if you thought that you thought wrong !!!!
So how should you take your relationship public ?
