So sad

[Fullofhope]

well I guess I am being naive or missing Phils and nice to see filipino's. Just not what I am expecting thats all. Or is it beause they are here now in UK and it got into their head?

[pennybarry]

Or is it beause they are here now in UK and it got into their head?

Expect it from many pinays because they are here now, their feet is no longer touched the ground and cannot reach them. Sometimes, sa airplane pa lang feeling rich na.

I have a friend for 20 years and did something really really bad against me. But after 5 years, i came to her doorstep to forgive her for what happened in our past. We became friends again and told me to help her find a british husband and I helped her. When she came over, she visited me and insulted me. She said I only live with my in-laws, no house unlike her they rent council house. Asked me why I am working as she feels she doesn't need to work and said her hubby can support her. She said she always go shopping buy appliances etc. And many insulting words that I've got from her. I just told her you're just newly arrived in this country. You don't know yet how expensive here.

After 2 weeks, she came again, and asked me if she can use my name as reference for applying a job. She said she always look at electric and gas meter. She never invited me to visit her in their house. Everytime they visit us, I feed them and waiting for invitation to visit them at their council house. She is aloof now. The reason why I don't know

I know she will comeback again. She's a nice person, just that sometimes, we forget where we came from. Other's Pinay's feet are above the ground. What UK made them cannot reach anymore???:doh

[Tawi2]

Its a very,very small world I know this lady,if she ever comes back on the site "Hi V " She came to the UK,liked the country,she is now back in Alabang,hope you finally sort things with Dave V

[trader dave]

you dont need friends your husband is your closest and most important friend and dont forget it

[Sophie]

you dont need friends your husband is your closest and most important friend and dont forget it

Exactly, my husband is my most important friend and the best friend i'll ever have and will always be. Marriage is also about friendship so you should be best of friends as much as you are a couple. And in regards to gaining friends (local or filipina), you don't rush. You take time in getting to know the people you meet. I always believe that in friendship - you don' go for the quantity, you go for the quality.

[Tawi2]

I have two friends,kind of sad huh?But theres a huge chasm between friends and aquaintances,friends can be called upon any time night or day from wherever they are in the world As for the lady in this thread she is back with her family in pinas,I hope she does return to the site,she can post the pics of her at stoneheng wearing "That" hat Sorry V

[Tawi2]

Nowt wrong with a council house in the north-east penny I was brought up in one,pretty rough area,but the neighbours were great

[Mrs.JMajor]

Exactly, my husband is my most important friend and the best friend i'll ever have and will always be. Marriage is also about friendship so you should be best of friends as much as you are a couple. And in regards to gaining friends (local or filipina), you don't rush. You take time in getting to know the people you meet. I always believe that in friendship - you don' go for the quantity, you go for the quality.

Thats absolutely damn right Sophia,and relatively to the title of the thread....Sad.... We should be very careful on the friend we choose,...very careful... might they are the snake