sorry me being sarcastic , it was I think 2 yrs of chatting b4 I meet the misses for the first time, then when i did go and see her, a year later we married, and it was about another 2 yrs after being married I applied for a spouse visa .. you can't rush into things
hehe.. took me 6 years to finally decide to meet my munky Jay!!! Tough! But did not regret a thing!