hi i am john 52,and my girl is ana 49.we met on a chat site march 2007.and it was instantattraction for both.i decided i had to meet ana so i went over for 3 weeks at xmas 2007.i have never felt so loved and wanted in my life i thought wow i then spent 2 weeks at easter 2008.i met a lot of family and was well accepected by all i met. her grown up children were very happy that i was a good person for their mum and we were like a family .I then spent weeks there in sept08 ,we have both decided that we want to be married as we have learnt so much about each other and we are perfact togother.we did go to malina and got a viitors visa form,yes wrong onewe want to marry in uk and settle for now,this is the best site for help .I now find myself very confused ,how do we marry in uk wat is the best step by step way about it .mygirl has a new pasport,that is a help i think