Quote Originally Posted by angelbird
hi i dont know what to do anymore. ive been married 2 months and already things have deteriorated so far i'm losing hope. all i want to do is to start my wifes visa application,the problem is she says her harddrive was faulty and has got a new one....that means all our emails,chats are lost forever!!! since i got bck to the uk from marring her in june she has completly changed. she is uninterested in discussing any future plans and has even got aggresive with money requests. she frequently tells me she hates me and ignores calls,emails txts and offline msgs. i know about tampo's but it seems hate has replaced any love...im even wondering if shes a scammer!
Whoa! Im sorry to hear that...sounds like she found someone else..I agree to what peter have said. It's bizarre how she just changed like that after you just got married! You mentioned she's a single mum...is she a responsible mother? Does she look after her child? How does she support him/her? Are you supporting her child as well?Do you know why the biological father left her? I don't think she's being reasonable. From a woman's point of view,i think she's only using you to satisfy her wants..not needs! It's not worth selling your stuffs just for her. Ask her why she's being nasty. If it's because your proofs of relationship has been washed away by a "faulty harddrive", doesn't mean her little horns will suddenly grow like mad. It simply means,you're off...she's on to her next one..Please open your eyes WIDE!!
Sorry angelbird,im just being carried away! I don't like it when things like that happen to a "so-called-happy-and-loving" relationship that you thought it would be. She's not worth coming to the UK. That's all!

And oh,maybe it's worth reading that article under Help and Advise- Discussion on the grounds of Legal Annulment.

Kidding aside,I hope what's happening now between you and your wife will just be a bad dream. I wish you goodluck and hope everything will turn out well soon. Just Pray.