hi there!!! im sorry for whats goin on with your marriage....
i just want to share a piece of my thoughts
me and my husband just got married last march,,,before and after our wedding we already have some nasty arguments but it doesnt stop our wedding,,,he still marry me (lucky me )
when we were able to sit down and talk about things ,,,he told me that im not the desame girl he went and visit in hongkong,,,the friendly,,happy, smiley worry free girl.......he also told me that he understand what happen to me....because after i lost my job in hongkong i became irritable, sensitive and i became more cry baby than before but he said he still love me,,,,
i admit...i totally change.....because i have responsibility and i had family issue....make me explode and gramble for a single problem that came.....
My husband support me emotionaly and financialy on what ever or where ever ago... even before and after we got married...
after he went back to uk we keep in touch throu emails,,,calls and ym chats....even tho most of the time my computer hang up on the time we are chatting,,,it was able to survive until i was able to print some of our ym converstion....
being alone back here in the philippines with family issue is not a happy moments...makes me depress all the time,,,i hate it when i argue with my husband online because i know im not being fare to him by giving him worries and depression....i feel bad when i do that..i love my husband so much and sometime he think that he is not doing enough because im getting depress everyday( wich is not true,,,because he did every thing for me...and i love him so much and appreciate all he do)...i miss him so bad and domestic problem in our house makes me depress and sensitive all the time....
reading your letter makes me feel bad,,,i suddently ask my self if im a scam?...
i dont have job,,,and since i lost my job he is been the one supporting me, he is not rich, but he tried so hard to support me in anyway that he can,,,an i appreciate it so much...
i hope my husband doesnt feel desame the way that you do to your wife....
i hope your wife will realize how much she is hurting you....
and i hope you two will be able to fix your problem soon...
good luck
