Hi Keith. Thanks for the advice. It's been complicated between me and my wife. The first time we split, we stayed friends and she talked me into moving back for financial reasons, for both of us. Now we are living under the same roof, even though not co-habiting, we can't divorce.
Now I'm going again, this time to the Phil's, for good, I can divorce her with her agreement, after 2 years, or wait for 5, when it needs no agreement. I'm really counting on her divorcing me for dessertion. Fingers crossed.
I found out today that even if I can only get the extension of stay for 59 days, I can pop over to Hong Kong for a weekend and get another 21 days and extend that again. I've also got a Filipina soliciter friend looking into other ways for me.
Whatever happens, now I've found this site I'll keep in touch and maybe contribute on the odd occasion. It's great. You and Pete do a good Job. I wish I had found it when I first met my little woman. Things would have been a lot different now. There is so much info on here.
Take care.
Paul & Jasmin.