Thanks for the advice Pete, I may need it. I didn't know that you had to be UK resident to start procedings. I never thought of the unreasonable behaviour one. Could be a good move. Too late now though as I am already commited to leave for the Phil's on Monday. I have a 1 year return ticket. If the wife doesn't divorce me during that year, I will return and start procedings then.

As for moving back for financial reasons, that goes along with my earlier comment about finding this site 3.5 years ago. I needed that advice then. Hahaha. Never mind. I've learnt my lesson now and will no doubt learn some more along lifes highway.

Paul.