I have been writing to a girl for a few weeks,, she told me from the start shes still married to a Pilipino sailer,,,and in no rush to get a divorce until she thinks shes found her new man.
Anyway she always writes to me ,,and realy has come accross as a realy nice woman, when i call her she puts her aunt, and daughter on the phone and we have a good laugh. She says nice things in her letters that would lead me to think that i am getting somewhere with her,,, but then she says she wants to just be friends for now. and get through her studies ect..

I told her today, that i am in this to look for a wife,, not pen friends so she would need to give me a little more positive to keep me intrested.

I am not sure if i am being to pushy , but shes seems like to much a long shot,,maybe keeping herself busey while hubby is away Or dose this friend status happen at the begining

neil

thanks neil...