thats so true, much of it does come down to the ECO's view of your visa app, especially when its a borderline case
another thing to do is a budget of all your out goings (bills, rent, food etc) to hopefully show you do have enough money to support her without recourse to public funds..
simplelife you waited near 6yrs
, as bad as me, it took more than 2 1/2yrs of chatting to go and visit her for the first time, and if i had not been made redundany then, she might still be waiting nearly 8yrs since we first chatted
time does go quick thou, my misses has been in the uk nearly 4 yrs now
you would have to wait probably 3 or 4 months even if you have everything ready now.. visa process is so slow