unemployed and just married

[KeithD]

.....trust God....

I'll take a stab in the dark here, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't work at the visa office in Manila!

im not worried about myself but the strain it will put on my wife knowing it could be as much as a year before we meet again.....

Not wanting to sound like a complete git (although I'm already one ), but why did you not have everything in place before the marriage?