sex before marriage

[joebloggs]

I am not 100% comfortable with this, is this really a genuine sentiment? or is this just a ploy to some how get a visa or a divorce settlement, it pains me to say that, but, here in the uk sex comes way before marriage, and it is fun ! ! so,,,,,,,,

your not comfortable with it

it could well be she is religious and this is the way she has been brought up

as for the visa comment i'm sure you've not mentioned this to her , you could well have an ex g/f ..