my wife was a 32 year old virgin when i met her. i found this quite unusual and even a little difficult to believe. i asked her why and she said that if she gave herself to a man in that way she would devalue herself and other men would not show her any interest.therefore she may not get married.
i respected her views and different way of life and despite flying 6000 miles to be with her i resisted the temptation of leaping on her the moment we were alone.
after gaining her trust and respect things ran their natural course and i,m glad to say that she is now my wife.
