Hi Everyone.

[wiggs]

Welcome to the forum Andrew good to hear you enjoy your stay here in the Philippines.
so its best to be open with her, speak to her whats on your mind and heart and let her understand the reason why you want her to quit working.

Happy Christmas

H miayela thanks for your advice,yes i have spoken to her stating i want her to stop working in the bar and she has. It was about 2weeks later she found a job as a carer,

[vbkelly]

Originally Posted by wiggs
Do you think a bar-girl can change...

yeah she might change if she can find a man who love her and trust her doesn't matter if she is a bar girl

[PAT]

Originally Posted by wiggs
Do you think a bar-girl can change...

Yes, for LOVE.... just show how much you love and trust her

[ANDRES25]

I AGREE TO WHAT EVERYONE said here... Good luck ANDREW! my husband's name is Andrew too.

[nigel]

You'll work things out Andrew! When you become interested in a filipina girl for marriage, you get all the comments like.."She's just using you to get a visa!...She will divorce you right away!" - IGNORE it all pal! People know too little and talk too much!

[wiggs]

You'll work things out Andrew! When you become interested in a filipina girl for marriage, you get all the comments like.."She's just using you to get a visa!...She will divorce you right away!" - IGNORE it all pal! People know too little and talk too much!

Thanks Nigel yes i no ill get comments like that,and it could happen? but then again the same could be said for any women from any other country coming to the UK .Anyway what they don't know is that until you try a women from the philippines you don't know what you have been missing.Ive read up on many forums about the country and the women there and its all true the way my g/f treated me for the 3 weeks i was there and not just the s-- but every other thing that goes with a relationship . has put all the other nationalities to sham. trust me I've tried them.:

[wiggs]

Thanks to everyone who posted there comments::How do i feel 100% better.thanks again Andrew.