Welcome to the forum Andrew good to hear you enjoy your stay here in the Philippines.
so its best to be open with her, speak to her whats on your mind and heart and let her understand the reason why you want her to quit working.
Happy Christmas
H miayela thanks for your advice,yes i have spoken to her stating i want her to stop working in the bar and she has. It was about 2weeks later she found a job as a carer,