Well I'm 44 years old worked 15 years in the NHS as a security guard,have had custody of my 3 year old son for the past 2 years.very hard work i take my hat of to all those Lady's who do it on there own.Anyway went to the philippines for a holiday in October spent 3 weeks in Angeles city best time of my life.OOH no i hear you say,yes i feel in love with a bar girl on my second day spent my hole time with her day and night for the 3 weeks.we both fell in love.Told her if were going to have a relationship she would have to give up working in the bar she agreed,came back to England 5th November and found out i have been made redundant.A couple of days later i phone Ariane and tell her the bad news:big cry:.I phone her every day using the £5 zero zero phone card getting 300minits a card.On the the 13th November i phone her and she tells me shes left the bar and got a job as a care helper for a friend of her auntie and that what they will do is pay her school fee to attend a computer course and give her a small salary at the end of each month.now i have a friend that lives over there who i have been keeping in contact with and he told me the same she no longer works in the bar.As I've said i phone every day different times of the day and night and she has always answered the phone and as of yet i haven't seen any red flags.we plane on getting engaged next year if all works out around July August time when i go back although she doesnt know ill be coming over at that time.Do you think a bar-girl can change shes only been working in the bars for a period of 6 months.Right ladies and gents give to me be it good or bad your thought and opinions.
