hi Wiggs,
first welcome to the forum and am glad that u had a superb holiday when u're in the Philippines..
IMHO, I think it is better to give her the benefit of the doubt..For me, there's no problem if u're a bar girl as long as u know ur limits..and isn't when u told her to find another job,she followed u and now worked as a carer??
For now, just enjoy the relationship and get to know each other very well..
Goodluck and HAppy Christmas..
