Hi Everyone.

[nigel]

You'll work things out Andrew! When you become interested in a filipina girl for marriage, you get all the comments like.."She's just using you to get a visa!...She will divorce you right away!" - IGNORE it all pal! People know too little and talk too much!

[wiggs]

Welcome to the forum Andrew good to hear you enjoy your stay here in the Philippines.
so its best to be open with her, speak to her whats on your mind and heart and let her understand the reason why you want her to quit working.

Happy Christmas

H miayela thanks for your advice,yes i have spoken to her stating i want her to stop working in the bar and she has. It was about 2weeks later she found a job as a carer,

[wiggs]

just think of a pretty woman movie andrew and consider it as you

Hi Mrs Daddy, I wouldn't mind having the same amount of money he had that's for sure,Thanks for the reassurance.

[wiggs]

welcome to the forum andrew

i'm from pampanga also very close in angeles city (just 2 minutes away)

chryss

I Was walking around with a grin that size everyday.

[wiggs]

Thanks to everyone who posted there comments::How do i feel 100% better.thanks again Andrew.

[wiggs]

You'll work things out Andrew! When you become interested in a filipina girl for marriage, you get all the comments like.."She's just using you to get a visa!...She will divorce you right away!" - IGNORE it all pal! People know too little and talk too much!

Thanks Nigel yes i no ill get comments like that,and it could happen? but then again the same could be said for any women from any other country coming to the UK .Anyway what they don't know is that until you try a women from the philippines you don't know what you have been missing.Ive read up on many forums about the country and the women there and its all true the way my g/f treated me for the 3 weeks i was there and not just the s-- but every other thing that goes with a relationship . has put all the other nationalities to sham. trust me I've tried them.:

[simplicity]

Well I'm 44 years old worked 15 years in the NHS as a security guard,have had custody of my 3 year old son for the past 2 years.very hard work i take my hat of to all those Lady's who do it on there own.Anyway went to the philippines for a holiday in October spent 3 weeks in Angeles city best time of my life.OOH no i hear you say,yes i feel in love with a bar girl on my second day spent my hole time with her day and night for the 3 weeks.we both fell in love.Told her if were going to have a relationship she would have to give up working in the bar she agreed,came back to England 5th November and found out i have been made redundant.A couple of days later i phone Ariane and tell her the bad news:big cry:.I phone her every day using the £5 zero zero phone card getting 300minits a card.On the the 13th November i phone her and she tells me shes left the bar and got a job as a care helper for a friend of her auntie and that what they will do is pay her school fee to attend a computer course and give her a small salary at the end of each month.now i have a friend that lives over there who i have been keeping in contact with and he told me the same she no longer works in the bar.As I've said i phone every day different times of the day and night and she has always answered the phone and as of yet i haven't seen any red flags.we plane on getting engaged next year if all works out around July August time when i go back although she doesnt know ill be coming over at that time.Do you think a bar-girl can change shes only been working in the bars for a period of 6 months.Right ladies and gents give to me be it good or bad your thought and opinions.

Nobody is perfect in this world. Give her a chance to change and to follow the good way of life...God is helping her through you, so that she will become a better person and a good wife for you in the future.God Bless you!!! and wishing a Blessed Christmas to everyone!!!

[aposhark]

[QUOTE=wiggs;103700]Do you think a bar-girl can change shes only been working in the bars for a period of 6 months......[QUOTE]

Of course bar girls can change, if there's a good enough reason to.
I met many men in the oil business who married bar girls, most relationships worked out but some didn't.
Just be circumspect for a while and don't send too much money until you are satisfied it is for real.
I hope it works out for you in this cynical world of ours.