You know, why I asked you if you have kids it because,
if for instance you have kids from your previous marriage are you going to take them with you to the UK even the kids tell you that they want to stay here in the Philippines because they are happier to stay with their Grandparents in familiar surrounding?
Or you will just ignore their wishes and still take them unhappy to the UK?
Of course you will likely to grant their wishes to stay. Anyway, its either they will decide to settle with you to UK in the future or you will come back here to visit them or to stay here permanently when your hubby retired from work.
Of course, it is a big question mark if her child is still small baby, but unlikely, because if the Filipina has kids from previous relationships, mostly the kids are already grown up, unless that Filipina is still pregnant when she started to have relationship with her British BF of course she has to take the baby with her to the UK.
The fact is hundred thousands of Filipina mother left her kids behind to work abroad to be able her to give her children a better life.
Like our mate Mavid said " It's All In The Name Of LOVE".