I will ignore my kids (if I have) as I have the right to decide for them as long as they are under 18yrs. Once they reached 18, then will let them to decide.
I will ignore my kids (if I have) as I have the right to decide for them as long as they are under 18yrs. Once they reached 18, then will let them to decide.
That reminds me of the joke thats something like this:
a 50 year old man is at a party with his 20 year old wife, his friend comes up to him and says " how did you get such a young pretty wife?"
the man replies " i lied about my age"
his friend says " how old did you say you are?"
man says "82!"
anyway this is forum about opinions will always be different but I would say that if you CHOOSE to live in a different country then dont bitch about it.
And if the english weather is bad just remember you can drink the tap water, eat food without flies on " or cockroaches near!" for the whole year!
Oh, and also if i`m not sure about people urinating in the garden when kids could play nearby when the toilet "or c.r." isnt far away is nice too?
Everywhere has its good and bad points so hey lighten up and people can marry whoever they want to as long as they are happy.
Happy new year everybody and best wishes for the future no matter how old your partner is or where you prefer to live
some of the comments here are tooooooo hot kung sa tagalog pa like this oh and some get hurt or insulted but hey this is a friendly forum so
peace
pasaway pasaway pasawayyyyyy peace walang away.....your spoiling my holiday joke
hi mrs major. im married to Brit as well, though I met him thru my colleagues at work. I mean I met him here in UK already as I am working as a Nurse. I have a few friends in Phils asking to find them a husband here specially a British one.
3 reasons I usually get are:
1. To be here/live abroad so they can help their families.
2. They said they don't mind old one as love can be learn though they prepared young and good looking one
3. They want to get out of the country (Phils) by any means.
Its a sad but true. Mostly our kababayans thinks that being out the country and work abroad is the only way. Well, im one those filipinos who strive hard and went to all agencies in the Phils just to get out of the country and have a good future. Being here in the UK for 8 years now I would say I get what I want Im not rich but I have a good husband and 2 cute children.
Happy New Year and all the best. I think you are just being open on the realities of what of some our kababayans facing right now.
amazing how you read my mind katherine I was wondering if you have telepathic talentI was thinking exactly the same while I was working this morning It reminded me of my Favourite teacher in Sociology Subject in College.I remembered what exactly she said about filipinos. the "Crab Mentality" thing instead of helping each other for the way to success we`re pulling each other down its sad but true.we are exactly in same color,race.and country we have been and yet we are ruining each other.Its ashame its called Filipinouk forum by its name we suppose to reunite our powers as one and help one another.same as other member said its suppose to be a friendly forum and yet here mga pilipina pa naman nagbabangayan,nagsisiraanif you have known somebody who is less luckier than you or perhaps you yourself married a handsome and younger bloke then consider yourself lucky not unless if you are arguing,fighting each day.I myself Praise God I have caught a Good man.God indeed answered my prayer I used to remember before praying to God to marry a man and ask whatever the race and age and indeed he gave him to me.I am thankful and blessed.He is the man for me and I am to him.Who cares about young men when they`re irresponsible pwera lang sa hindi like sis Kimmi said she admire her husband more than anything.and mature husband know how to handle our tantrums whatever other situation may look like thats their life and its none of our business.Yan nga ang problema natin mga pinoy masyadong pakialamira at tsismosa sa buhay ng iba,dunno how can or who can change us.But hopefully someday somehow we can to make the earth a better place to live in.
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
Hello Im new here but just caught up by your statement here. You wonder why some Filipino's marry an older guys than their parents ,just to be out of the country,do u believe its love"
In my humble opinion it could be for many reasons. Many people-men and women go to different countries just to be get out from the county. if you see and put your eyes on the old man, you will really can ask why one person marry to this man and not to young one? But if you look at the country Philippines and its economic condition, you can find out there are many ways of getting out from Philippines to go other countries. And now, OFW to different countries will exist to your consideration.
People who's living condition is not fair for their hardwork always look for a better life of their family and for someone they love. They will not really leaving philippines, but just out for this country with the intention of coming back in the future bringing back their hope which in the future would be realized and materialized.
So why we asked if marrying to an older man is just a way to get out from the Philippines? We are hurting somebody and we are degrading those general people who really have pure intentions.
If one marries older men, that happens to Philippines as well, and i could see no wrong on that. One does not need to depend one's opinion or what countries tradition to whom she or he would wish to marry. The fact that his decision was important for him and gives him faith that it makes her/his life better and comfortable with happiness that is more than marrying younger guys in the Philippines.
Filipinas are known to be a bread winner.I agree that most of us go working abroad for our family.I myself consider it right after finishing my course I have decided to work abroad to help my parents supporting my two siblings in college in that way I could repay Their kindess to me when sending me to a very high standard college in our city.My mum didnt wanted me to go working abroad but I insist and Blackmailing her that if she wouldnt let me I would run away and work abroad still and she couldnt do anything about it but agreed for my decision.She was so supported and kind that I will do anything for them.And then while I was abroad I met my beloved thats how it started.so we cant blame filipinas if they want to go abroad and as well face the fact that some of filipinas using foreigner really just to come out the country but they`re not harming you or me so let them decide what they want to do and thats their life anyway not ours same as other member said stop poking your nose to others.Mind your own business.I also thought before that life abroad is harmonious and yet as the saying goes Not all that Glitters is Gold we thought that we earn a lot abroad life is precious but we didnt know that lifestyle here is so expensive as well.Being in U.K is better off coz of child benefits and hospitalization thats the advantageous.In philippines we have cheap labour but we have very cheap lifestyle and the disadvantage side is that we havent got free hospitalization in general unlike here, so wherever you go theres disadvantage and advantage sideso which one you pick.about me am settled now here with my hubby.wherever the hubby goes the wife should be with him
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
yeah u're right, ive been a member here since 3months but I am not like u who just keeps on posting even sometimes it's OT already. Because I know when is the right time to talk and when is not.:BouncyHapyy:and FYI, I dont think it's a hot thread, maybe it's just that u make it out of topic and I feel sorry for the owner of this thread.
and about my post long time ago,it's just that I informed MR. Admin that I knew somebody who is copying his forum and creating a new website with the same format.
just the same thing what ur hubby did..isn't he also got a website wherein he copied all the stuff from here??even the denied visa application of Philip and Frances? btw, have u asked permission for that?do u want me to post the link of his website in here?
oh, I forgot I am "only a member" I am not allowed yet to post links..
I am together with my kids right now, I cant bear to leave them wherever.so I bring them wherever I am.
ooopppsssits getting hotter in here wheeeewww
to loved and beloved is the greatest joy on earth...
just watched 'unreported world'
one guy who is 84, married a girl who was only 14, 4 years ago,,
the program showed girls who were married at 12 or 13, and now suffer with fistula, nasty
http://www.channel4.com/news/article...+lives/2846782
Hi, Katherine we all know who you really are. If you want to say bad things about me, at least have the guts to post under your real ID
I thought that issue has been resolved, if you read carefully Mrs. JMajor`s post she used the word "SOME" and that does not mean in general.
And itS not intended to insult anybody if you take it as a critisism then ask yourself. If you are not guilty no offense, right.?
If someone has a clean motive no need to explain to everyone why you married to an old man like the other members here said if you are happy with it you will not take Mrs. JMajor`s post negatively.
Come on Ladies, stop sulking there. Start the year right, like me and Penny did , we started the year laughing out loud. hahahhaha right Penny?
damn smilies not working again, well said simplelife :o)
come on ladies, time to move on, its' new year and its a storm in a tea cup...
one thing I've noticed with filipina's they can get offended or upset easily on here, sometimes things are taken the wrong way, misunderstood or written the wrong way.. just forget it and move on.. look at me and scouser Keith, always insulting each other at any chance were given, and were Bessie mates :o)
so peace and stop this b4 it goes too far, not many on here have actually meet anyone else on here, so people don't know you, so don't take it to heart if someone who doesn't know you says something that upsets you, i'm sure they didn't mean to, were not kids on here, all over 21 i hope :o)
[QUOTE=joebloggs;105471] look at me and scouser Keith, always insulting each other at any chance were given, and were Bessie mates :o) =QUOTE]
thats the British way, we can make fun and poke fun at our friends because we know its not meant
JOHN and VANESSA
Thanks Joebloggs.
Its not easy to be a peacemaker ...
But I can see each side`s point of view. Yes as you said "filipina's they can get offended or upset easily on here, sometimes things are taken the wrong way, misunderstood or written the wrong way.. "
We have Pinoy saying here Joebloggs, " Ang Maasar talo!" in English, if you get upset or annoyed with it you are the loser. hahahha
Penny where are you now ?someone must laugh with me now.
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well i didnt post this so people can get hurt people here they just take it the wrong way around and those people who are posting just a friendly post they take it negatively hey grow up guys ....well i guess when you metion this ""philipines they just loved thier people and country and they got hurt so easily when there is negative comments...i shouldnt post this thread ..i should've wrote im home my very own home what do you think guys? its a nice day here..............
Hi Angel,
Do not blame yourself for starting this thread. I understand that you put this thread to share what you feel about our country.
And I salute you that even you`ve been to the foreign land you still love and proud of our beloved country.
Blame should be for those who have a very a low self-esteem that easily get rattled and hurt.
A person who is insecure lacks confidence in their own value and capability.
Btw, Angel123, Which part of the Philippines you live?
I am Tagalog, but I have traveled to most part of the Philippines and I can say that, Philippines is beautiful and I am so proud of it.
what happen to this thread
WELCOME TO THE PHILIPPINES ANGELenjoy your vacation
Don't make promises when you are in JOY. Don't reply when you are SAD.
Don't take decisions when you are ANGRY. Think twice, Act wise. BE happy.
if a manc and a scouser can get on together in the celeb big brother house (terry and big mo - i just hope he don't do something he will regret with her, if he is toooooooooo drunk ) then you ladies should be able to get on here, and your not locked up in a house 24/7 together.. or maybe you should be
terrys wife is 1/4 filipina
and the next one who posts any bad comments, i'll be sending the misses around to pull your hair out , be warned - it's not a good time to be in the same country as her, that's why me and the dog are hiding from her .. ...
oh happy new year
[QUOTE=kukurokuk;105491] I'm scared to say anything...my hair just got rebondedQUOTE]
and thats called Pinay sense of humour great one kikirokuk
If everyone behave like that then we can always have fun here.
Have a Happy Weekend everyone! remember this is te first weekend of the year.
Cheers!
kukurokuk i'm sure this year will be better than last year for you
no need to worry about your hair if you say anything bad, you just will not have any to worry about
it will not be pig on a stick that will be cooking, but a pinoy on a stick
i'll just tell the misses, the next person who says bad things, that you said i should get another dog , as you think my dog is lonely, all hell will break loose, WW3 and a monster will be created coming your way
i caught little joe the other day saying 'out out' to my poor suffering dog , then as the dog passes him, he tries to kick it , i said to the misses where he learning that from.. she said "i don't know"
to all the guys on here, make sure your filipina is compatible with 'mans best friend' b4 you marry them , or like me, you will have to make the choice of which one to get rid of, not much of a contest.. i'm packing the misses suitcase
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