A week and already big hint about money and marriage......Originally Posted by KARATEKA
Hi People,
Well this may sound abit odd but here goes.
I have been talking to a girl from the philippines for about a week now and she seem's really understanding she is very cute too , we have been chatting on msn and emails and the phone. But she says she loves me but we have never met and then i think is it just about her wanting to love my cash then she was telling about how much a item cost it was about 13,000,00 pesos about £200 GBP then i asked her if she wanted me to buy but she said no as she said that she don't care about money now this was a item that she would like to own , so maybe she is not seeking to love my CASH .
NOW the PROBLEM !!!
I am with somebody at the moment but not happy for many reason's and i would like to make a new start she said you would like to marry me and start a family this sound so nice i just don't know if i should take a risk as you hear many things with asian girls just being with a guy for cash.
If this ain't a red flag, nothing else is.....
Keep on chatting, keep the money where it belongs, ie your pocket... And se where it takes you, do not mention nuptials, presents, and take care in not listening to stories of severe hardships, ie roofs blown off by the wind, cousins in hospital, or emergencies of any description.
In a few months time, when you got rid of whatever baggage you are carrying, take a holiday overthere, meet the girl and if you two click, then you can start planning for some kind of future.
In case of doubts keep on posting, we will try to help in keeping you alert to scams.
Filipinas are very proud ladies, and none of them would ask you for anything at this early stage in the relationship or ever.
Obviously there are scammers around, but those are in the minority, and unfortunately they give all the good and decent ones, which are in the vast majority, a bad name.
However you decide to act, one thing is very important.... Do not part with any money.
You will see that other members will agree with me.
This smells of a slight scam and she is probing you....
But of course I could be wrong and if I am, I apologize now.
In regard to your baggage....... Sort that one out first...
Good luck and welcome aboard.
