funeral service

[joebloggs]

50 with 3 kids

live will never be the same again for the widow and kids.. my dad died of a heart attack at 56. left me mom with 3 kids to (13,11 and 7)

what was his cause of death, at 50

[cheesewiz]

50 with 3 kids

live will never be the same again for the widow and kids.. my dad died of a heart attack at 56. left me mom with 3 kids to (13,11 and 7)

what was his cause of death, at 50

I know and now its my friend the only one working for her children here but she doesn;t want to bring the kids back to Phils again. She can't get child benefits or any kind of benefits bec she is on a workpermit for only 2 years out of 5 years:(. He got a colon cancer

[joebloggs]

She can't get child benefits or any kind of benefits bec she is on a workpermit for only 2 years out of 5 years:(. He got a colon cancer

, one of the problems with immigration system, if she was European, no problem she could get benefits/help, 5yrs is along time to pay and wait for help , 3 yrs to go..

what can she do, all go back to the phils, send the kids back, or struggle on her own with the kids here .. if she sends them back, she will be on her own for a few years , thou financially sending them back might be the only way for her. once shes gets her ILR she well be able to get tax creds.

[cheesewiz]

, one of the problems with immigration system, if she was European, no problem she could get benefits/help, 5yrs is along time to pay and wait for help , 3 yrs to go..

what can she do, all go back to the phils, send the kids back, or struggle on her own with the kids here .. if she sends them back, she will be on her own for a few years , thou financially sending them back might be the only way for her. once shes gets her ILR she well be able to get tax creds.

I know for sure she will struggle but i don't think she can't live without her children beside her. Her eldest is 15 y/o this year if she wait for her ILR she is 18 by then...i hope she can cope i know its hard for her and the children

[joebloggs]

i hope she can make it with her kids here, if she can find someone to rent a house with and split the bills,

in 3yrs time maybe the eldest could be working and help pay off any debt she has built up over the 3 yrs.

in the long run, i'm sure she will be better off here than the phils, once she has ILR.. and her eldest start working..

i really wish her well

[Mrs.JMajor]

i hope she can make it with her kids here, if she can find someone to rent a house with and split the bills,

in 3yrs time maybe the eldest could be working and help pay off any debt she has built up over the 3 yrs.

in the long run, i'm sure she will be better off here than the phils, once she has ILR.. and her eldest start working..

i really wish her well

very true,was thinking the same way,stay the kids there much better, rather send them back in PI

[flomike]

a very sad story indeed. God Bless them