Children or No Children

[flomike]

To Pennybarry, nice to hear someone like you who have that kind of spirit..i wish my spirit is like yours

I'd been married for about 5 years now I got married when I was 30 and Im 35now and my husband is turning 52 this year and has a daughter from previous married. We don't have our own child yet and im taking contraceptive pills during those years and I just stop recently. Its a mutual decision why we don't have one yet. Im hoping that one day we can have one or the sooner the better as we are not getting any younger anymore. I don't want to have a child for the sake of having a white baby, blonde/ginger hair and blue eyes I want a child bec we are preparing for his/her good future. I do believe that child will bring happiness to every couple but if you can't give your children a good future its not fair for them and for sure GOD won't be happy either. Me and husband is morethan happy to have one child as he can't afford to raise morethan one at his age and this unpredictable economy right now.

I don't agree in some people that GOD will provide. If we're doing our part as a good parent for sure HE is there to guide us.

[pennybarry]

To Pennybarry, nice to hear someone like you who have that kind of spirit..i wish my spirit is like yours

I'd been married for about 5 years now I got married when I was 30 and Im 35now and my husband is turning 52 this year and has a daughter from previous married. We don't have our own child yet and im taking contraceptive pills during those years and I just stop recently. Its a mutual decision why we don't have one yet. Im hoping that one day we can have one or the sooner the better as we are not getting any younger anymore. I don't want to have a child for the sake of having a white baby, blonde/ginger hair and blue eyes I want a child bec we are preparing for his/her good future. I do believe that child will bring happiness to every couple but if you can't give your children a good future its not fair for them and for sure GOD won't be happy either. Me and husband is morethan happy to have one child as he can't afford to raise morethan one at his age and this unpredictable economy right now.

I don't agree in some people that GOD will provide. If we're doing our part as a good parent for sure HE is there to guide us.

Thanks for the compliments Just that, I am contented with what I have and thankful for every blessings.

Hubby has children in his past marriage and they are all married and haven't meet them personally. Hubby said I am a grandma already
I like any colour baby, it's my hubby wanting brown
God's said:
You go and multiply and people do
Today, people becoming too sinful because of over population isn't it?
They rob, they kill each other, kill their own siblings sometimes.