Quote Originally Posted by KARATEKA View Post
Hi People,

Well i was on the net for rest of the night after work on the doors and near to the end of our chat she told that she can not come online tomorrow as she needs to get a licence for her family's business ( bread shop ) and it cost 10,000 for a year and she only as 5,000 and i thought ,, way HAY !!! SO I ASKED her if she asking me for money and she said NO and she does not need my money from me or need my help she just wanted to tell me her problem and she talked about that the family owed money to friend's to about 15,000 . i ask her if she was seeking money And it was a big NO BUT i don't want to put her off but asking her if she trying to have me over . the best way forward ?? .
Sorry to burst your bubble and call me an old cynic if you like, but I'm pretty sure she's only after your money. Although you've only known her a short time the money subject seems to have come up quite often and of course if you ask her outright if she's asking for money, she will of course say NO! Softly Softly Catchy Monkey!

As you carry on chatting with her I'm pretty certain that various amounts of money which are needed for a wide range of problems will continue to be carefully woven into your conversations and the one at the top of the list is of course "can't afford to come online tomorrow" because that would of course be quite a small amount, just for starters, which of course, would appear to be as much for your benefit as hers.

These girls know the art of subtlety and the whole process is designed to get you to offer money, even to the point where they refuse and refuse until you absolutely insist.

I think that if your on Yahoo Messenger and you review you chat logs very carefully, I'm sure you'll start to notice how often the money subject creeps into the conversation.

Iain.