@D&G
@Lavander

Thanks for you thoughts guys. In my mind I've given her the benefit of the doubt numerous times over the past few months. As for doing something wrong myself, I've thought about that and don't see anything that I could have. She was sweet enough before going away at christmas, that's why I put up with the other stuff becasue she always had nice words to say when we did chat. But that's died altogether now, and I don't see what I could have done inbetween christmas and now because we had no contact for 2 weeks.

I'm still open to the idea that there is some reasonable explanantion, but the fact that she cannot even contact me now to put my mind at ease doesn't give me much hope. If she is sulking over something trivial that's not the kind of girl for me anyway.

Like others here have said there's plenty out there who would appreciate me, so I'm already dipping my toe back in the water.

Again, thanks to everybody for their advice and support. You've all been very kind and your words have helped a lot.