Thank you Zobel, that's very good advice and I appreciate your kind words.
She first mentioned this in either late oct/early nov. I don't get it, what would they be sending her away from? If they don't want us communicating surely there'd be more chance of controlling this if she were at home.The way you tell this, it sounds as though the move to Japan has been arranged rather recently ... that rather sounds like the family are 'sending her away', out of harms way.
That's a really kind offer, thank you, but I'm not sure what could be done.We live in Tagum and visit Davao fairly frequently - if there's anything we can do to help ....