Am I just being paranoid or is something wrong?

[triple5]

If she's going going there and stay with her auntie may be as a tourist and she can't work there In Japan its hard to get a tourist visa specially for filipinos working there

she's said her aunties been there 9 years, so it wouldn't be a problem, and sh'e be helping out in the aunts restaurant and looking after her son.

good luck i hope she knows that how lucky she is that there's a person like you caring for her.

Thank you

may i know how young is your gf as it seems to me that her family is of great influence in her decision in choosing between you and her Japan trip. does she knows about you having children before you met her in person?

She's just turned 23. And yes she knew all about my kids well before we even met and always insisted it would never be a problem.

A few people have mentioned it now, but I don't know about going out there. I think most people in my shoes would have their suspicions that there's somebody else involved here. I'm not prepared to go all that way just to find out for sure. That time and money would be better spent on meeting somebody new.

[flomike]

A few people have mentioned it now, but I don't know about going out there. I think most people in my shoes would have their suspicions that there's somebody else involved here. I'm not prepared to go all that way just to find out for sure. That time and money would be better spent on meeting somebody new.

Imo. she's still young may be she realized that she can't commit yet and being a step mum of your children scared her or may be her auntie promised something to her that she can't say NO..may be a rich Japanese lol ....who knows and only her knows what's going on.

i think that's the best way to move on and find someone new there's load of filipina out there (if you're still looking for pinay) sincere and worth your time and love. One thing for sure its not your lost its her lost...All the best

[D&G]

That time and money would be better spent on meeting somebody new.

Well, then, start to forget about her...u can't start looking for a new girl when she is still in your heart and mind.

[Mrs.JMajor]

. That time and money would be better spent on meeting somebody new.

i can refer you one,she is member here on the forum

Are you Bald,Big Heart and Blue eyes ?

[lavander]

i can refer you one,she is member here on the forum

Are you Bald,Big Heart and Blue eyes ?

Ha ha ha ha....

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haha, I don't think I'm lavander's type, I still have a full head of hair. :