u r not bieng paranoid. in my openion most of aall the answer here is right i do agree with mrs.jmajor coz,im a pilipina too married with scotish guy who is now in uk and just waiting for me to get there. b4 we have the same communication like u and ur gf i never miss to contact him while his still in uk,we always chat everyday i tx him everyday i even call him just to hear his voice makes me so happy,there is no exuses if u really wants to.but there is a lot of exuses of u dont want to. anyway goodluck to u hope taht u hear more reason from her y she act that way.