Hi Asiansmiler, yes you're situation sounds very similar to mine, and I can understand your frustration. I'm sure, like me, you've played it over and over in your mind what could have changed. Like you say, sometimes people are complicated and not much you can do about that. I hope things work out the way you hope.
I'm going to make one last effort, one more email to see if I can finally get some answers. If I don't get a reply within a few days definitely time to move on.