Am I just being paranoid or is something wrong?

[triple5]

Thanks for sharing that belmontboy, it does help, as it does sound remarkably familiar. It makes me think if this is something we're going to go through every few months I probably won't have the patience for it. For somebody so young I'm a little baffled by her urgency to marry and settle down. She always said she wanted to be with the right guy and never go through a divorce, so it seems strange that she would seem so sure about me having only spent 2 weeks together.

I don't think you can really be certain about a relationship until you've lived together for at least a few months. Like you said, 6 months should be a good test.

Best of luck with it.

wish you all the best and hope that you made the right decision too

Thanks flomike

Thanks for the link, Zobel, that's a very helpful guide for getting a rough idea of costs.

[Eljohno]

For somebody so young I'm a little baffled by her urgency to marry and settle down

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Its common for young girls over there to want to settle down and get married as they can be made to feel like there is something wrong with them if they are not married by about 25, sad but true!!

[flomike]

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Its common for young girls over there to want to settle down and get married as they can be made to feel like there is something wrong with them if they are not married by about 25, sad but true!!

I agree with you. When you reach 25 in the Phils no BF no husband most people think there's something wrong with you at 29 when i got married i know how it feels being a victim of gossips from our neighbours.

[Jay&Zobel]

Thanks for the link, Zobel, that's a very helpful guide for getting a rough idea of costs.

No PROBLEMO, GLAD TO BE OF SERVICE!!