Young girls and old men

[joebloggs]

Ok, so a thought provoking topic for us. Why do you often find young Filipina's with old English Guys? I can't understand why a 22 year old girl would want a 50 year old fat, balding, grumpy, fart a lot man.


Now the strange thing is for me, i'm 24 and seem to always find myself with older women. Not sure how it happens I always seem to attract them, although the oldest was a beautiful 47 year old Canadian Nurse, we just seemed to have a lot in common, but it wasn't to last which is good, because now i've met the woman of my dreams.
My future wife is 32, so still 6 years older then me. Although somehow I seem to be the mature one in the relationship, until i've done something wrong and she becomes all bossy!

someone will get banned

as for going with older women, why would you date a woman old enough to be your mom?, maybe because of immaturity and insecurity you need a strong woman in your life to mother you ?

[RickyR]

someone will get banned

as for going with older women, why would you date a woman old enough to be your mom?, maybe because of immaturity and insecurity you need a strong woman in your life to mother you ?

Maybe so, could be quite possible. My own view is that I find its easier to relate to people who have had a career and have an idea of the outside world, beyond a holiday in Menorca!

But seriously, it's good to question these things, and wonder about it. I'm most certain if I was 50 balding and single, i'd appreciate a young girl to keep me company, because hey, the celebrities do it. But really what is in it for the girls, is it the security? Is it the matured personality? Is it because they have wealth and only have a few more years left?
I know every situation is individual, but just good to hear a few views.

Working with the cruise lines, I noticed most of our crew and officers who got together tended to be similar in age, but with all mixes of nationalities.

[aromulus]

Working with the cruise lines, I noticed most of our crew and officers who got together tended to be similar in age, but with all mixes of nationalities.

Of course they do.
In such small environment they would not like to be seen dead with somebody a lot older than themselves.
Unless it is a female passenger with a chance to leave a sizeable tip at the end of the cruise...

Officers and crew, most of it, is all down to the image they project to the other crew members.

And don't say I am talking outa my , coz I spent more years at sea than you had hot dinners....

[nigel]

And don't say I am talking outa my , coz I spent more years at sea than you had hot dinners....[/SIZE]

"During the war..."

[joebloggs]

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And don't say I am talking outa my , coz I spent more years at sea than you had hot dinners....

they still use prison ships in north wales

[KeithD]

they still use prison ships in north wales

Yep....Manchesters full

PS. Time does not exist, it is a man-made variable.

[adam&chryss]

Maybe so, could be quite possible. My own view is that I find its easier to relate to people who have had a career and have an idea of the outside world, beyond a holiday in Menorca!

But seriously, it's good to question these things, and wonder about it. I'm most certain if I was 50 balding and single, i'd appreciate a young girl to keep me company, because hey, the celebrities do it. But really what is in it for the girls, is it the security? Is it the matured personality? Is it because they have wealth and only have a few more years left?
I know every situation is individual, but just good to hear a few views.

Working with the cruise lines, I noticed most of our crew and officers who got together tended to be similar in age, but with all mixes of nationalities.

Are you sure they are old English guys, not other foreign nationalities? Well as far as I know… English guys are more handsome, gentlemen and absolutely romantic white guys I’ve ever seen. I’m sure everyone agrees with me here

In regards to ur question… honestly it’s none of our business though I know that u just want to share ur opinion.

Just like you… u had a gf who’s more than 20 years older than you. And as u have said u seemed to have a lot in common. So I guess with other Filipinas have same thinking about that. Maybe they seem to have a lot in common with older guys and also have same views like you.

What is in it for the girls? Well you already answered that question… but that was just few of the answers, you also have to include that it must be love. There’s no definite or general answer with this. As you have said every situation is individual.
Men and women are equal. If you can do it so are we. If you like older women, then i don't think it's bad for us girls to like older man.

My husband is 10 years older than me.. he may be bald but very good looking guy.. as for me I really like bald guys. And eventually I like an older guy to be my companion. But in spite of that, the reason I married my husband which is not very old for me is because I truly love him even if, just in case he’s 100 years older than me, I’m very much positive that he’ll still be my husband.

[lavander]

Maybe so, could be quite possible. My own view is that I find its easier to relate to people who have had a career and have an idea of the outside world, beyond a holiday in Menorca!

But seriously, it's good to question these things, and wonder about it. I'm most certain if I was 50 balding and single, i'd appreciate a young girl to keep me company, because hey, the celebrities do it. But really what is in it for the girls, is it the security? Is it the matured personality? Is it because they have wealth and only have a few more years left?
I know every situation is individual, but just good to hear a few views.

Working with the cruise lines, I noticed most of our crew and officers who got together tended to be similar in age, but with all mixes of nationalities.

I for 1 is an example of lady who prefer to end up with a matured (40yrs and above) big bald white guy
though i don't considered myself young anymore. am 33 btw.
Having said that, i find matured guys (British to be specific) more matured and sensitive compared to those of my age.....and yah damn good looking as they grow older and balder ...

Matured guys tend to keep the conversation spontaneous (which i think important as you grow older. well of course the level of intimacy should always be part of the package..

For my case,his wealth is not an issue ...as long he is 3B!


..my 2cents...

Lavander.

[tomm]

Ok, so a thought provoking topic for us. Why do you often find young Filipina's with old English Guys? I can't understand why a 22 year old girl would want a 50 year old fat, balding, grumpy, fart a lot man.

I know that as we get older we are supposed to mature, and men are supposed to get better looking, but really we become rounder and grumpier.

Now I can understand a 30 or 40 year old woman wanting to be with an older guy, probably got more to talk about and a good career background, lived a bit etc.

Now the strange thing is for me, i'm 24 and seem to always find myself with older women. Not sure how it happens I always seem to attract them, although the oldest was a beautiful 47 year old Canadian Nurse, we just seemed to have a lot in common, but it wasn't to last which is good, because now i've met the woman of my dreams.
My future wife is 32, so still 6 years older then me. Although somehow I seem to be the mature one in the relationship, until i've done something wrong and she becomes all bossy!

Wait till all the Filipina's get their arses out of bed

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Funny.. I have the same feeling

[joebloggs]

the misses is 6yrs younger than me , means when i retire she will still be working , 6yrs of peace and money coming in, while i sit under my palm tree on palawan

[Piamed]

the misses is 6yrs younger than me , means when i retire she will still be working , 6yrs of peace and money coming in, while i sit under my palm tree on palawan

[Fitzy]

Respect hehehehehh:

well, I must say my Girl is 17 yrs younger than me at 29, and she is my angel, coz she puts up with my moods, but she loves me coz i'm an old fashioned romantic who cares for her so dearly
We just finished our holidays in the Phils last week, and went to many places.
She particularly liked the surprise romantic dinner by the sea, and the waiters in the Cebu White Sands resort were most accommodating with my request
Yes I know i stole the idea from Shirley Valentine, but is just romantic old me, lol
She loved it of course.
We plan to marry in August, and i can't wait.
She is still at home, and I miss her so much, but as they say, something worth having, is worth waiting for.
Getting back to the point, I was also worried about the age gap until I read this thread, so it looks like i'm not alone

My tuppence worth.....

By the way, we also got engaged 2 weeks ago

[Sim11UK]

By the way, we also got engaged 2 weeks ago

Congratulations Philip.

[Piamed]

Respect hehehehehh:

well, I must say my Girl is 17 yrs younger than me at 29, and she is my angel, coz she puts up with my moods, but she loves me coz i'm an old fashioned romantic who cares for her so dearly
We just finished our holidays in the Phils last week, and went to many places.
She particularly liked the surprise romantic dinner by the sea, and the waiters in the Cebu White Sands resort were most accommodating with my request
Yes I know i stole the idea from Shirley Valentine, but is just romantic old me, lol
She loved it of course.
We plan to marry in August, and i can't wait.
She is still at home, and I miss her so much, but as they say, something worth having, is worth waiting for.
Getting back to the point, I was also worried about the age gap until I read this thread, so it looks like i'm not alone

My tuppence worth.....

By the way, we also got engaged 2 weeks ago

Congrats to you both, you romantic you! :-)

[PeterB]

She particularly liked the surprise romantic dinner by the sea

Ruby celebrated her 24th birthday on our honeymoon last year. I arranged for the staff at Pearl Farm resort to serve us dinner on the beach below our apartment.

[flomike]

the misses is 6yrs younger than me , means when i retire she will still be working , 6yrs of peace and money coming in, while i sit under my palm tree on palawan

that's what my husband keep on teling me as well...when he retires @ 65 im only 50 it means im going to work for another 10-15 years while he is enjoying the fruit of his labour