im sorry i have jumped a little on this thread no time to read it all have to chat to the fiancee on ym soon
maybe i can give you some insite into the other side of the philippines and yes it is changing and the young girls [some are changing ] many in fact but there is still GOOD GIRLS even my gf tells me only 1 in 100 is worth settling with my gf never had a priveliged life she is very street wise i learned a lot by trawling bars renting girls its ok with a pilipina you can have the relationship you want you just HAVE TO FIND THE RIGHT GIRL first and formost an open AND HONEST relationship from day 1 this is what i expect from a wife tell her and she tells you want she wants in return most guys will say they want certain things in sex like bj discuss the sexual side of the relationship so many couples fail because they are frightened of the sexual side
maybe thats what happened to you 2 you never spoke the truth from the start move on pal dont make the same mistake again
or for now go with the flow have the 3 in the bed many guys would be happy to have that game played the choice is yours