Quote Originally Posted by bornatbirth View Post
where exactly is girls gone wild in the philipines?

i have been there over 5 times and never seen a girls bar,i guess im not looking hard enough?

my wife was a 31 year old virgin before i met her,even asking her what sexual fantasies she as and what turns her on is like getting blood out of a stone,so how your gf is telling you shes interested in other girls amazes me!

what replys are you expecting from this forum,i dont think anyone here can relate to what you are saying?

im not sure i should shout YESSS A 3 SOME and get my camera and film it and enjoy myself or feel sorry for you?

maybe after getting there in the USA she can express herself without her family watching her and wants to let her hair down!
1."GGW" or however you want to put it, is the Philippines reality today (IMO) especially for the youth today. You can call it whatever you want. But the culture is changing. Just the little things, ya know? Like for example if you get an 18 yr old girl in the Phil to tell the truth if she has ever seen oral sex performed- well sure she has, you just get on the internet- duh!

2 A girls bar? Who said anything about a girls bar or anything like? I`m talking about the actual sex lives of everyday people in the Phil. Not any kind of "for sale" or "trash" if you will. And thats my whole point. The reality is hidden, its not out in the open. THATS MY POINT

3 OK she was a 31 yr old virgin. Point is, stories like that are common in the Phil. The reality of the situtation is much different. And by the way my GF was very shy with me. It was hard to get her to talk to me even at first.
Everything related to (dont ya say it!) sex was "never done" before and lets not talk about. Very conservative.
It took a long time to get her to talk even a little about such things. Must have depended on my reactions. She slowly opened up.
Ahhh... I`m gonna guess with some men she NEVER would have. But she would have loved them and lied to them for own good. What else could she do perhaps? I`m just putting myself in a womens shoes as best I can (ouch! not very good fit!)

4 I`m not expecting any kind of reply in particular. I already made that point earlier.
So not many here can relate to what I`m saying? No one can relate to a sex outside the relationship story?
Ok, my girl went out to the mall last weekend and and picked up some kind of special Filipina they dont have in the Phil because they ALL moved away?
No bud, they are all over they place. No, they dont have a sign hanging on them to let you know.

5 I`m kind of feeling sorry for myself right now.