when he come over here and meet me we got married and we both a property here,and he visit his kids 23 times a year for a few weeks,then last year sept 2 he went back to uk and look for job there and he find one already now,but b4 he lift he gv me all the doc that i need form him,statement of acount,the property we own here in phil,sponsor letter rom him and marrage cirtificate from nso,and weeding pic and my birth and my passport with my married name.i will just going to submitted it this week coz i waited for my son birt cirtificat to be isseud,my son from my former relationship b4 i meet him. he is so worried for my visa to get through,im not coz im married to him its that he is so afraid i told him just keep faith and patient.i always told him no matter what im alwys here for him stand him and wait for the visa will get through. thanks a lot for the advice and help.