these were your origanal posts:
http://filipinaroses.com/showthread.php?t=9976
1) you were refused to have a student visa because the ECO was not convinced that you really wanted to gain qualifications here but be with your partner.
2) you are thinking of applying visit visa...
IMO: how serious are you & your partner? why not apply for civil partnership? (as u have mentioned you are a filo guy)
if both of you are ready then go ahead... but taking another risk of applying VV is indeed as i have said risky...
3) anyway, one of the members here mentioned that someone applied for VV and until now is in the UK...
4) Just balance all probabilities... Just weigh things all over again...
I pray things will be in your side this time...